It鈥檚 no exaggeration to say the movement for LGBTIQ+ rights would not exist without lesbian bars.

Yet even before the challenges of the pandemic, these crucial community spots were becoming an endangered species. Today, of the nearly 69,000 watering holes in the USA, a mere 27 of them are lesbian bars 鈥� down from about 200 in the 1980s. You can chalk up this diminished showing to online dating, or to urban gentrification, or to (largely positive) societal changes. But no matter the reasons, the is raising funds for and awareness about the small handful of full-time queer-gal hangouts still proudly welcoming patrons from coast to coast.

After raising more than $260,000 since its 2020 launch, the Lesbian Bar Project has boosted support for these last-standing bars, thanks partly to the support of multi-talented performer (and 鈥減rofessional lesbian鈥�) . DeLaria executive-produced and served as narrator for the of the same name (directed by Erica Rose and Elina Street), which was featured in the and earned several prestigious awards. The project is also the subject of a three-part TV series.

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Beyond this admirable endeavor, there鈥檚 an IRL way to show some love for lesbian bars: visiting them for some in-person patronage (matronage?) in any of the two-dozen US cities where they鈥檙e still shaking, stirring, pouring 鈥� and welcoming. While these bars exist, of course, mainly for lesbian and queer folx to feel safe and comfortable, respectful LGBTIQ+ allies are most welcome, too. For 鈥� just as DeLaria does in the short film 鈥� there鈥檚 always room to throw back a J盲germeister shot.

The jovial scene inside NYC's Cubbyhole
The jovial scene inside NYC's Cubbyhole 漏 Cubbyhole

Henrietta Hudson & Cubbyhole, New York City

West Village icons of lesbian culture

Each of these legendary bars has served the lesbians of New York City and beyond since the early 1990s, when they were among several other downtown girl bars. Only a few blocks apart, they each serve up a different vibe: Cubbyhole is adorably compact, while Henrietta Hudson is roomy, with plenty of dancing and karaoke. Together, they are beloved lesbian-centric institutions of the West Village, each located just a short walk from the Stonewall National Monument.

Wildrose, Seattle

Serving the best of the Pacific Northwest鈥檚 lesbian scene

Anchoring the lesbian contingent of Seattle鈥檚 LGBTIQ+ neighborhood since 1984, the Wildrose has everything you鈥檒l ever want or need in a corner bar. Think a pool table, happy hour, karaoke, theme nights, DJs, a flirty bar for singles and plenty of tables for catching up with old friends.

Walker's Pint in Milwaukee
Walker鈥檚 Pint in Milwaukee 漏 courtesy of Walker鈥檚 Pint

Walker鈥檚 Pint, Milwaukee

The corner tap for everyday Janes and sports fans

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Maintaining a safe, friendly spot for women is the mission of, one of the best, most easygoing hangouts for lesbians in the Midwest. A fixture on a 2nd St corner in Milwaukee鈥檚 Walker鈥檚 Point neighborhood since 2001, it draws mostly women (and a mix of other folx) for pool, patio time, live music and sports events (Bucks and Brewers fans are most welcome).

Herz, Mobile, Alabama

Welcoming southern outpost for sports, hookahs and fancy cocktails

In a state that鈥檚 politically flaming red, you鈥檝e got to raise a glass in solidarity with for representing and serving the LGBTIQ+ community in Mobile, Alabama. Opened in 2019 by dynamic married duo Sheila and Rachel Smallman, Herz survived the pandemic with support from the Lesbian Bar Project and loyal locals who need a friendly community gathering place like this in the conservative South. A place where they can just be themselves.

Blush & Blu, Denver

Drag kings and burlesque are only the beginning

Just down from Denver鈥檚 LGBTIQ+ Center on Colfax 鈥� and a mainstay of the city鈥檚 queer scene 鈥� is another community space, this one with all manner of lesbian-centric fun. offers strong cocktails, arcade games, a library lounge and a busy calendar of events spanning burlesque shows, poker nights, live comedy, lesbian speed dating and more.

Wild Side West, San Francisco

The West Coast鈥檚 oldest lesbian bar that鈥檚 still pouring

This San Francisco outpost of lesbian pride has encouraged radically queer flirtation since 1962. Wild Side Wes moved from its original Broadway location up to Bernal Heights back in 1976; today, it still feels the love of devoted queer women (and their pals) who flock here for weird-but-true trivia nights, stiff drinks and an eclectic beer garden.

Sue Ellen's lesbian bar in Dallas
Sue Ellen鈥檚 lesbian bar in Dallas 漏 courtesy of Sue Ellen鈥檚

Sue Ellen鈥檚, Dallas

Send the boys to JR鈥檚 and invite the women here

Opened in 1989 and occupying its spot on Throckmorton St since 2008, is the longtime ladies鈥� choice in central Dallas. The space features two stories, an outdoor patio, pool tables and stage for live shows; it鈥檚 easy to start early with happy-hour drinks at the bar, and end by kicking up your heels with late-night dance parties.

My Sister鈥檚 Room, Atlanta

Hotlanta鈥檚 favorite Midtown women鈥檚 bar

Celebrity pop-ins, live shows, strong drinks and sultry weekend soirees keep Georgians coming back to in Midtown Atlanta. This out-and-proud, lesbian-owned club has welcomed women since 1996, amplifying the 鈥淟鈥� in the LGBTIQ+ appeal on and around Piedmont Ave.

Ginger鈥檚 Bar, Brooklyn

Proud queer outpost in the heart of Brooklyn

The last strictly lesbian bar in the outer boroughs of New York City, Ginger鈥檚 brings cool old-school pub vibes to Park Slope. Bartenders and patrons here are equally sociable, making this one of the easiest bars in town for bellying up solo and meeting new friends. There鈥檚 a pool table, drink specials, karaoke nights and a fabulous backyard usually buzzing with a mix of lesbians and the people who love them.

Pearl Bar, Houston

The lesbian hitching post of Houston

Many agree with what the team says about this spot: it鈥檚 鈥渢he best damn lesbian bar in Texas.鈥� This giant, rustic-style bar is a quick jaunt from Montrose, Houston鈥檚 LGBTIQ+ neighborhood. Women love the big and colorful patio, crawfish boils and barbecues, rollicking shows and the spot鈥檚 great big heart. Stop in to enjoy a place where queer folx come to carouse with their community.

New Favorites

When the best of the best includes a few bonus contenders

On a note of optimism, several bold entrepreneurs have added even more pride to the lesbian bar roster of late. Standouts among these newer queer-gal hangouts include , a refined cocktail lounge in Chicago鈥檚 Andersonville; in Washington, DC, a cafe and bar that warmly welcomes lesbian, trans and non-binary folx; and in Portland, which specializes in all things regarding ladies鈥� athletics.

Be sure to check out more fabulous hangouts for queer women in Nashville; Phoenix; San Diego; Richmond; Oklahoma City and Tulsa, Oklahoma; Worcester, Massachusetts; Bloomington, Indiana; Columbus, Ohio; and beyond. They鈥檙e all listed at .

The site also lets you contribute to the comeback with a donation 鈥� and see what the project is doing to support in 2023.

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